Michelle Banot
Engman
- Visitation
- Friday, December 13th, from 5-8pm at Heritage Funeral Homes (9200 S. 27th St. Oak Creek)
- Saturday, December 14th, from 9:30-10:30 at St. Stephen’s Catholic Church (1441 W Oakwood Rd, Oak Creek)
- Mass of Christian Burial
- Saturday, December 14th, starting at 10:30 at St. Stephen’s Catholic Church (1441 W Oakwood Rd, Oak Creek)
Michelle Banot Engman
Was Born into Eternal Life on Sunday, December 8th, 2024 at the age of 48. Faithful wife of over 25 years to Adam. Funny and nurturing mother to Adam Michael and Kateri Genevieve. The first daughter to Ernesto and Jocelyn and Sister to Jasmine (Theo), Renee (Kevin) and Jacob (Dayra). Daughter in law to Barbara, sister in law to Geralyn. Aunt to Avary, Salome, Ellie, Harley, and another niece on the way. Also survived by other relatives and countless friends.
Preceded in death by her grandmother Genoveva Siy (Lola) and grandmother-in-law Ednamae Buretta.
Michelle was a beacon of love and compassion, touching the lives of many with her warmth and nurturing spirit. A dedicated educator, Michelle devoted her career to teaching Spanish and English as a Second Language in the St. Francis School District, where she inspired countless students. Known for her unwavering commitment to building relationships, she was more than a teacher; she was a guiding light and a second mother to many young hearts in her community.
Michelle’s passion for community involvement was evident through her roles with the Greenfield Youth Football organization, Worldwide Marriage Encounter, lay Xaverian Missionaries and the St. Charles Borromeo Parish, where she contributed her time and talents to wedding planning as well as the prayer and worship commission. Her legacy of service and love will forever be cherished by those fortunate enough to know her.
A visitation will be held on Friday, December 13th, from 5-8pm at Heritage Funeral Homes (9200 S. 27th St. Oak Creek). Another visitation will take place on Saturday, December 14th, from 9:30-10:30 at St. Stephen’s Catholic Church (1441 W Oakwood Rd, Oak Creek), followed by a Mass of Christian Burial to begin at 10:30am. Interment will immediately follow at St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery – Oak Creek.
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My Mom was an amazing person. She cared for her family and friends. Friday would be the day my life changed forever. The next 2 days were some of the most pain I had ever felt in my life. But that was how much I loved her. She was there to take care of me. She taught me how to pray, she taught me to be a better person, she taught me how adoration works and the list goes on. These last 12 years have been way better with your presence. She introduced me to a lot of people, like her amazing parents who raised her right. Her siblings were there to be with her. Everything she has done for me has been more than amazing.
I will deeply miss you, and it will be hard at times. But to know you are pain-free is what keeps me strong.
I love you so much and I hope to see you again. But the next time we will be in paradise.
Adam, and Family –
My hearts break for your loss. Please know that my family and I will be praying for the repose of your wife & mother Michelle’s beautiful soul.
Yours in Christ, Kathie Murray, a fellow APC Member
My Dearest First Cousin Michelle is truly the most kindest, brightest, and strong person I know. Her loving ways for everyone in our Family and her children are utterly pure unconditional love. My heart is heavy right now, however, I know that she is safe with my Father and Grandmothers in Heaven.. I love you my Cousin Michelle and I will forever miss you my Beautiful Cousin.
Always,
Ate Louisa 💚
Michelle had an entire family she never met .. I know her from Twitter/X .. and i loved her deeply .. She prayed for all who knew her .. she never missed my Birthday .. She would send me a birthday card filled with Holy cards .. and she would make me laugh .. She made me laugh on days when nobody else could .. I will miss her terribly .. i am
however comforted by how much she loved Jesus and The Blessed Mother .. Surely they felt that love everyday and surely They returned that Love .. especially as she entered her eternal Home ..
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Mom was a very positive person. She made lots of people laugh, and she had a huge heart full of love. Her faith in the Lord was very strong, and she would go to mass almost every day. She taught me a lot, like being brave and faithful. For example, she helped me pray and do whatever my passion is, and she raised me with great care.
I love you so much, and I am super happy that you can see the Lord.
Thank you for everything Mama!
Michelle was one of my dearest friends on Twitter/X.. some of us had an outside chat with a priest friend of ours where we would discuss the faith, family, and life. Michelle would send my kids and wife cards from time to time. I always loved those cards and the various holy cards. Adam and kids, your mom loves you so much. She talked about you all of the time. The greatest gift she has given you is your faith. Her faith was stronger than anyone else’s I’ve ever known. I will miss her dearly. Be assured I will pray for her and for all of you.
Ed, Katie, Felicity, Lydia and Anastasia Karns
I knew Michelle from Twitter. I remember telling her once she was a role model for me on there. I remember seeing her last post of a picture of Kateri’s St Nick doll she lovingly shared with all her Catholic X friends. She made such a phenomenal impact on the many lives of those she had never met in person. I hope knowing the impact she made will help her family she loved so much through this difficult time. My prayers for her and all of you. May God wrap his love around you as Michelle walks in her eternal life, waiting to be reunited with you.
Dear Banot Family,
I am heartbroken to hear about Michelle’s passing. Though time and distance caused us to lose touch, Michelle was such a meaningful part of my life during middle and high school, and I will always cherish the memories we created together.
I’ll never forget the times I spent at your home, feeling the warmth and kindness your family shared so effortlessly. Michelle had such a bright spirit—full of life, laughter, and generosity. It’s difficult to imagine the world without them in it.
Please know that I’m thinking of all of you during this time of unimaginable loss.
With love, Keith Van Epps (Nauman)
Joy,and Ernie, my heart goes out to you both during this difficult time. Please accept my sincere sympathy. Please know that however you’re feeling right now—sad, numb, guilty, tired, angry—it’s normal. There’s no right way to feel. Joy we love you and we are so sad that you’re going through this. I want to be present for you, but I don’t know how. Please know I’m thinking of you and praying for you.
Adam, Adam Jr., and Kateri —–
I never met Michelle in person, or heard her voice, but I knew her on Twitter/X.
I consider Michelle a Little Sister in Christ. — The beautiful little sister I needed.
Last week I told her she was a saint on earth. Anyone that knows her, knows exactly why . Michelle loved her family so much, and gave you all the greatest gift. —- A strong ,vibrant Faith. The True Faith.
Adam, Adam Jr., Kateri —- the highest honor you can give to Michelle, is to live that Faith like she did. There is no doubt in my mind, that she went straight to Heaven.
God bless you.
Our sympathy to all of you on the loss of your dear sweet Michelle. So very sad to hear about her tragic death. She is your special angel watching over all of you. We only met her at Kevin and Renee’s wedding but have always heard so many good things about her and her wonderful family. We loved the neat puppet show that she and Adam did at Kevin and Renee’s wedding reception. What fun!
Prayers and hugs for all of you from Missouri.
💔🙏 Keith and Ronda Hinkle and all our family.
My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Michelle. She attended many professional development trainings/meetings through our organization (CESA 1) that I would support. She always came in with a friendly smile and kind conversation. I am so terribly sorry for your tragic loss.
Our families deepest condolences to Michelle’s family. We were honored to know Michelle & Adam through our time at SCB. Michele & her family were always willing to help out and shared our passion for community building for the enrichment of our children’s lives. I am so grateful for the talents and time that Michelle shared so generously which had such a profound impact on our community. Her light will undoubtfully continue to shine for decades to come thr0ugh her legacy.
To the Family of Michelle, we are so very sorry for your loss. We knew her from the time spent at the Xaverians in Franklin. I would attend daily Mass at the Xaverians, and afterwards a small group of us would gather around the table in the Fathers kitchen. We had many happy and funny moments there, which will be remembered fondly. Michelle was the most genuine caring person I have ever met. She loved her Faith and her Family. She would do anything for anybody. It was indeed a Blessing to get to know her, My heart is broken for her Husband, and her Daughter and Son. A person can tell what type of person Michelle was, and how her Husband and her brought up their Family in Faith, by the words posted above by her Son and Daughter. So impressive in the words they chose talking about their Mom! You all will be in our daily thoughts and prayers.
Michelle was a customer at my Walgreens in Cudahy. She was a regular photo customer, and she was one of the kind ones. She always walked up to the photo counter with a smile on her face. I may have not gotten to know her personally,, but I knew her smile. Thank you for making my mornings at Walgreens brighter Michelle!
Our deepest sympathy to this wonderful family! Even though I didn’t know Michelle, I know Renee as she is married to my nephew! I know Renee can light up a room with her smile and laughter, so I know Michelle as I read her obituary was nothing less!❤️ Our thoughts, Love and Prayers during this difficult time!💔🙏.
Linda and Chris Hayward
I remember Mrs.Engman being a kind, and wonderful person. She was always willing to help and was one of the kindest people I had ever met. She had a strong relationship with the Lord, and an even stronger one with her children. She was an amazing mother and person. Always looking for the bright side of things. “Never fear the shadows, for there is always light on the other side.” My prayers are for you Adam and your family.
Adam was my best friend and I’ve known him and his mom for 7+ years and she was the kindest person I ever met and I would see her show up to everything for Adam and his sister.She had a great relationship with the lord and would always go to church and would always turn everyone’s day better
im very sorry for u guys, i am their son’s friend (adam) and i just so bad for him, and the family. my prayers are with you and your family
We are very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Michelle,
My eyes have been leaking over and over hearing of your passing. ..
I am crying for the loss of your amazing soul from this life.
You touched so many people worldwide and in the Catholic world with the beauty of your soul and love. But I remain confident you rest safely with our Lord Jesus Christ. I cry for us, for not having you here but I know those of us who get to Heaven shall meet with you again. I cry for your family who have lost you and your close friends whose lives you touched immensely. …
Thank you for all the times you prayed for me.
Thank you for putting me on the Christmas card list last year..
Thank you for the posts reminding us to pray for one another and of Ed”s candy thing..LOL
You taught us all the importance of praying for one another and attending Mass with how you lived in love toward us in relationship to God.
You didn’t give a lecture but lived a testament.
We will pray for you and for your family and friends as you have prayed for us.
Hopefully, we shall live well what you taught us all with the time we had.
Adam and Family
Please accept my and my family’s deepest condolences.
May Michelle rest in the arms of the Lord and comfort you from above.
Matt Knorr
Adam,
John and I were so upset to hear the news. We often ran into Michelle at Catholic venues/events – and even sometimes at stores – and we were always happy to catch-up on her life, your life together, and your children. Her voice is an unforgettable one, easy to recall and hear in your head; there was a special ring to it. Moreso, John and I recall how we met you at Worldwide Marriage Encounter and the connection we made with you both. We have no memories of our first weekend there that don’t include you both, as well as sharing the meetings and movement many times after. Thus, for us, Worldwide Marriage Encounter will always have the impression of the two of you – a devoted loving couple – burned into our memories and experience, and for that we thank you for sharing yourselves with us. It’s just a small piece of Michelle’s story/legacy, but please value it, because even in such a small way, her life and love with you DID make an impact on us. We are happy to hear that you have a stong support system and we know you have a strong faith. We hope to run into you in the future and tell you these things in person. You have been blessed with a supernatural love in Michelle and that is forever. We offer sincere sympathy. John and Char Dey
Adam and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Although I only met Michele a few times, I felt her spirit and kindness. Adam talked lovingly of Michele and all the wonderful things she was doing for others.
May you take comfort that Michele is in the arms of our Lord.
God Bless and Peace
Legacy of Michelle Engman
With deep respect and affection, today I would like to pay tribute to Michelle, an extraordinary woman who, although she has left this world, has left an indelible mark on all of us who had the privilege of knowing her. Her sudden and tragic departure leaves a deep void, but also a legacy that will live on in our hearts forever.
For me Michelle was a person who lived her life with unconditional love, selfless dedication and a faith that enlightened those around her. I am personally very grateful to her. If I speak English today, it is thanks to her collaboration. She taught me with a lot of love, professionalism and free of charge.
She was always ready to help, to share her time, her knowledge and her love. From her I learned what it means to live according to the values of the Gospel. Her life was a true testimony of service and unconditional love.
A woman with a deep, mature and active faith. A woman of daily mass and always accompanied by her two children. A woman with a great devotion to Our Lady. I remember every time she asked me after mass: “Father Maurice, are we going to pray the rosary today?”. What a beautiful testimony of faith.
Dear Michelle, thank you for all that you gave us, for your example of love, faith and service. Thank you for having a missionary heart. We will always remember you with love and gratitude. May you enjoy peace in the presence of God.
Dears Adam, Adam Junior and Kateri, in this moment of deep sorrow, I want you to know that Michelle lives forever in each of you, in her love, in her teachings, in her faith. Her strength and goodness will continue to be present in every step you take. Though the void she leaves behind is great, the love you shared together and the memories you built with her will be your guide and your refuge.
May Michelle’s love and faith continue to be a light that accompanies you. My sincere condolences. My heart and prayers go out to you that the Lord will fill your hearts with comfort, peace and strength. A warm hug.
God bless you.
Fr. Maurice from Manchester – UK
Xaverian Missionaries
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Michelle, you are an angel that left a mark on my heart forever. Your kind soul will always be remembered.
Hi I did not know Michelle but I have Heared very good stuff about her she put her life towards the lord and would pray and would go to church almost every day I wish rests in peace and the lord be with her alway I am sorry for your loss Kateri and your family -Anelise
As a teacher in Brown Deer, I was blessed to know the Banot family.. If memory serves me correctly, Michelle was the family poet. I remember reading some . I was impressed. May God’s love support all for you during these trying times.