Monica A.
Rutkowski
- Memorial Visitation
- Saturday, September 21st, from 1-4pm at Heritage Funeral Homes (9200 S. 27th St. Oak Creek)
- Memorial Service
- Saturday, September 21st, starting at 4pm at Heritage Funeral Homes (9200 S. 27th St. Oak Creek)
Monica A. Rutkowski
Passed away peacefully Saturday, September 7th, 2024 at the age of 50. Caring mother to Madelyn and Melana. Former wife of Mark. Loving daughter to Howard and Judith Bywater. Dear sister to Bill (Heidi) Bywater. Aunt to Megan, Andrew and Emma. Also survived by other relatives and friends.
Preceded in death by her grandfather Bill Reichardt, grandfather Donald Bywater and Uncle Bill Reichardt.
Also preceded in death by her beloved pets, Bootsie and Roxie.
A memorial visitation will be held on Saturday, September 21st, from 1-4pm at Heritage Funeral Homes (9200 S. 27th St. Oak Creek). A memorial service will start at 4pm.
Monica’s warm spirit and love for helping others, especially children, left a lasting impact on all who had the privilege of knowing her. She found joy in every moment spent with all animals, especially Milo and Dakota, and adored the simplicity of life’s little pleasures.
A graduate of Oak Creek High School – Class of 1992, Monica pursued a fulfilling career as an Orthopedic Technician, where she dedicated her time and skills to caring for others. She had a special place in her heart for Mickey Mouse, finding joy and comfort in the beloved character’s adventures.
Monica’s fondest memories were made in the company of her family, particularly during the serene moments spent together in Eagle River. Her laughter and unwavering love will be deeply missed by all who were fortunate enough to have her in their lives.
You were wonderful to me when I moved to the Midwest. I will always remember your kindness. Lord Bless You
My dearest sister….i will love you always and forever…..i will hold you close to my heart and promise to hold your beautiful girls close to mine and always watch over them…
You will be missed….love you
Sending my deepest condolences. May the thought of her no longer suffering bring you peace. God bless. – The Karges’
Monica
We became fast friends on our first day of nursing college together. We shared some wonderful memories together! You’ll always have a special place in my heart! I’ll always have ypu to thank for meeting my husband Rob. We will both be forever grateful for that. Both of us will miss you so much!
Until we meet again Monica. I’ll always love you and your kind heart and beautiful spirit.
Your friends
Shelley & Rob
I am sorry to hear this. Monica was always sweet and friendly. Prayers for her family
Monica my dearest friend and sister by choice….I will miss your beautiful heart and smile. We connected immediately in 5th grade and stuck through the years of fun..family trips to Eagle River(the water skiing incident..lol) and Chicago to Mingas…roaming the neighborhood, sleepovers and so much more. I am blessed and honored you were in my life and I will forever miss you with all that I am. I love you! Till we meet again my dear friend & sister.
We were members of a large group of friends. In such a large body of friends, it’s easy to be lost, or forgotten- but not our Monica. The group is one less today, and will never be the same. Thanks for being a part of our lasting memories. Rest easy Mon.
I knew Monica when we were young and going to school together. I still have a present she gave me for my birthday. She was always so kind and sweet. I moved to Ohio after 9th grade. I’m so sorry to hear of her passing. She was, no doubt, a blessing to all who had the pleasure of knowing her. My sincere condolences to her friends and family ❤️
Our deepest sympathies to the Bywater family. Monica had a loving family who loved others and animals. Rest In Peace.
Monica, so sorry we only recently kept in touch. But remember this, our childhood in the old Franklin neighborhood will never be forgotten. We all grew up together just few houses away. Life went on and we grew up and older and became parents ourselves. But not once i ever forgot those good times we had. My condolences go out to your parents , Billy , who was always a good kid to me, and im thinking of your kids Monica. Sleep in pleace now, and before you know it, we all will meet again one night on Anita Lane to go for a final walk.
Growing up I remember all of us kids being together all the time at grandma and grandpas during the day in the summer. Later on in the evenings when it was time we were all getting picked up, we would beg my parents to go over to ur house and vice versa with Madelyn and Melana. We would have sleepovers all the time at each others houses. So many memories at your house with going on your trampoline, going swimming in your pool, having bonfires at night, playing with the neighborhood kids, having water balloon fights and many more. All of it was so fun and i’ll remember those days forever. You will be truly missed ❤️
Oh Mon, we became friends back in high school, we got into All Sorts of Trouble, Shared So many Experiences ALL thru the Years, Shared Hysterical Laughs, and Created Many MANY Lasting Memories through our lifetime!! All the Sleepovers, Your family remains like a second family to me 🩷🩷🩷 it’s True, you Truely Enjoyed the Most Simplest of Life’s Simple Pleasures, You’re heart was So Pure, You were Alwats So KIND, Warm and Compassionate To my mom, especially when she was Dying, I’ll Always Always Be Greatful to you for that 💕💕💕
My mom,
May your beautiful & gentle soul rest now; for you have gifted us with your presence and generosity. We now hold a memory of you within our hearts, and wait until one day we meet again.
Looking back on growing up and thinking back to our childhood reminds us of how blessed my sister; Melana and I were. Our mother ALWAYS wanted to make sure we had good memories & experiences. From the countless amazing birthday parties, to picnics at a park; she always wanted to ensure we were taken care of.
She raised us with good morals, surrounded by good people, blessed us with a good education and a loving & safe home.
Monica was an amazing friend, sister, daughter, niece, cousin, aunt, granddaughter, neighbor, & etc. But she was destined to be a mother, and I could not express my gratitude for the love she gave us.
I pray your body & soul is to rest in peace. God has you now; until we meet again.
Thank you for every step of guidance, second of patience, ounce of love, and the constant comfort. It will be hard; maybe even impossible to live on day by day without you, but I know you’d want us to stay strong together as family & friends.
I will forever love, miss, & cherish you. Every. Day.
Good people pass away;
the Godly often die
before their time.
But no one seems to care
or wonder why.
No one seems to
understand that God is
protecting them from the
evil to come.
For those who follow
godly paths will rest in
peace when they die.
~Isaiah 57: 1-2
Mani a I will always remember you how beautiful you were when you came to see MarkI enjoy are talk God bless you may the gates of heaven open up for you,,,,,,,love you mama Sue
Dearest Monica I was so moved by your thoughtful call to see how I’m doing. We had a wonderful conversation. I do wish we could have gotten together. We had so many great memories of our vacations together. I bet you and grandpa are sharing all those fish stories now. You are in The arms of so many loved ones. Give my love to grandpa. Love you always, grandma Sharon .