Pamela J.
Lotharius-Howell
- Visitation
- Monday, January 6th, 2025 from 11am – 1pm at Heritage Funeral Homes (9200 S. 27th St. Oak Creek)
- Funeral Service
- Monday, January 6th, 2025 starting at 1pm at Heritage Funeral Homes (9200 S. 27th St. Oak Creek)
Pamela Jean Lotharius
A beloved mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on December 24, 2024, at the age of 65. Born on June 15, 1959, in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, Pamela lived a life that was a wonderful blend of love, laughter, and kindness.
Pamela not only excelled in her work but also nurtured lasting relationships with her colleagues and customers. Her vivacious spirit and unwavering work ethic left an indelible mark on all who had the pleasure to know her.
Pamela was a devoted mother to her children, Tarl Lotharius, Tanya Ellis, Joshua (Amanda Fecteau) Lotharius, and Ashley (Izzy Cintron) Lotharius. She found immense joy in the company of her grandchildren, Aubrie Ellis and Jeremih Ingram, with whom she cherished every moment. As a proud grandmother, she loved to spend time nurturing their dreams and creating memories that will be treasured forever.
In her retirement, Pamela embraced the simple pleasures of life. She loved long walks, watching her favorite television shows, and taking leisurely drives around the lake, enjoying nature’s beauty. Pamela was known for her sweet tooth, especially her fondness for Redvine Red Licorice, which brought her great joy and comfort.
Pamela will be deeply missed by her loving companion for 23 years, Stanley Baczek, her sister Debora (Richard) Neidenger, and brother Randy (Sandra) Howell and a host of nieces and nephews including Tiffany (Dennis) Milewski, Kyle Neidenger, Shonda Neidenger, Rory (Dominique) Howell, Robin (Nikki) Howell, Rocky (Nicole) Howell, Rhiannon Howell, Randon Howell and Ricky Howell Jr. Pam was a dear Great-Aunt to Riley Howell, Ramsey Howell, Mckenzie Howell, Reece Koshanski, Cheyenne Howell, Corey Resterhouse and Robert Howell. Additionally, her long time best friend since junior high, Carolyn (Tom), held a special place in her heart, having shared countless memories and experiences together. Each of them holds cherished memories of her warmth, guidance, and love.
Pamela will also be deeply missed by her cat, Shadow, who she had a special bond with. Her love for animals reflected her caring nature and her compassionate spirit.
Pamela was preceded in death by her parents, Russell Howell and MaryAnn Komorowski (nee Schoenfeld), brothers Ryan Howell and Ricky Howell, nephew Ryan Howell Jr. and grandson Amar’e Ellis.
A celebration of Pamela’s life will take place on January 6, 2025, at Heritage Funeral Homes in Oak Creek. Visitation will begin at 11:00 AM, followed by a funeral service at 1:00 PM, where family and friends will gather to honor her legacy and share their memories. Her final journey will conclude with burial at Arlington Park Cemetery, Milwaukee.
As we celebrate Pamela’s beautiful life, let us remember her radiant smile, her unwavering kindness, and the profound love she gave so freely. She touched the hearts of many and will forever remain in our memories. May her spirit shine brightly as we carry her love with us always.
We love you mom! You know the truth of it all and that is all that truly matters now! Rest easy! We know you loved spending time attending your grandchildren Alana & Troy’s school events, parties, and spending every holiday with them was always a treasure and meant so much to you. We will cherish those memories and will continue to pass down the stories that you’ve shared with future generations to come. Love Tarl (Jamie), Alana, & Troy!
Tanya You And Your Kids Have My Deepest Condolences
After working with Pam for 25 years, I don’t even know where to begin. From the first day I met her, I could tell immediately she was very dedicated to her job. Through out the years we worked together, Pam always had a ” can do” attitude. She was very proud when she was number one amongst her peers. She always had a positive attitude towards any challenge that was ever given to her. She supported and helped all of her fellow workers. I will never forget our working relationship/ friendship that we shared. Rest in Peace.
Love, Kathy Bots